802: Gayed It Out with Mal Glowenke

Sep 3, 2024

Mal Glowenke, host of the Made It Out Podcast, shares their transformative journey from a closeted lesbian in Texas to an empowered voice in the LGBTQ+ community. They discuss the challenges of growing up in a heteronormative society and the liberation felt after moving to LA. Mal touches on the need for authenticity, including reversing past plastic surgeries done for the male gaze. With a focus on political activism, they highlight the importance of voting and introduce their new series, Made It Out (To the Polls), aiming to inspire engagement within the community.

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Intro

00:00 • 2min

Podcast Updates and LGBTQ+ Insights

01:36 • 15min

Navigating Heterosexual Complexities

16:10 • 19min

Embracing Personal Comfort and Identity Liberation

35:28 • 5min

Queerness and Political Engagement

40:38 • 10min

Musicals, Astrology, and Life Transitions

50:13 • 13min

Supporting the Podcast and Engaging with Queer Storytelling

01:03:13 • 3min

If you’re a later-in-life gay, congrats on making it out! And if you’re still in the closet, we see you, we love you, and your gayness is valid.

This week Leigh (@lshfoster) and Ellie (@elliebrigida) hang out with host of the Made It Out Podcast (@madeitoutpodcast), Mal Glowenke (@malglowenke), to talk about the journey from recovering Texas-raised (closeted) lesbian to loud and proud podcast host. The heteronormative societal culture from growing up in Dallas was strong, but the pull of LA was stronger. All it took was one visit to Hollywood to break the closet door wide open, catapulting Mal into a beautiful, technicolor world of community and possibility.

It’s been a long journey from Mal’s days of scrolling Craigslist’s “Women Seeking Women” board to moving to DTLA and experiencing her baby gay days right as the pandemic hit. After 20+ years of having to live inauthentically, Mal had a lot of unraveling to do, including needing surgery to reverse the plastic surgery that she had done solely for the sake of appealing to the male gaze. By finding queer community, Mal finally had the safe space she needed to liberate her true self.

Now that Mal is wide awake to the harms of the heteronormative patriarchy, she is using her podcast to get the word out about the importance of voting. Her new six-episode series, Made It Out (To the Polls), partners with LPAC, the only national organization dedicated to advancing the political representation and power of LGBTQ+ women and nonbinary candidates at every level of government.

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