What The Young Ref Wishes Every Sports Parent Understood (with Jeremi Barnes aka @TheYoungRef)

Sep 3, 2025

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Jeremi Barnes didn’t plan to become a youth sports ref with millions of views across social media. But what started as a way to help out turned into a calling — not just to officiate games, but to connect with kids, model respect, and remind everyone why youth sports actually matter.

Jeremi shares his own athletic journey (including how he set a school record in triple jump just two months after learning the event), how he became a referee, and why he believes how you treat kids matters more than the scoreboard.

We talk about:

Why younger referees can connect with players in a powerful way

What kids actually hear (and feel) when parents yell from the sidelines

Why your sideline behavior is shaping your kid’s character

How older siblings can play a huge role in the journey

The real impact of encouragement, presence, and modeling emotional control

If you care more about your kid than the scoreboard, this conversation will hit home. It’s honest, funny, and full of perspective every sports parent needs.

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