In this conversation, Lousin Mehrabi sits down with Spencer Lodge for an open and reflective discussion that goes beyond surface-level success. Through thoughtful questioning, Lousin encourages Spencer to open up about the gap between external achievement and internal fulfillment and how family expectations, particularly his relationship with his father, shaped his drive and self-perception.

Spencer reflects on navigating rejection, pressure, and self-doubt, and how resilience, forgiveness, and self-awareness helped him redefine success on his own terms. The conversation also explores the impact of parenting, gratitude, and meaningful connection on personal growth. Spencer shares lessons from his journey in sales, life in Dubai, and using success as a platform for purpose through charity work and storytelling, including a documentary focused on resilience and human impact. A grounded, honest exchange about turning pressure into progress and ambition into something that truly matters.

00:00 The Illusion of Success

02:54 The Weight of Expectations

06:09 The Burden of Shame

08:59 The Struggle with Self-Perception

12:00 The Relentless Pursuit of Achievement

15:05 The Challenge of Connection

18:10 The Impact of Family Dynamics

20:57 The Journey of Forgiveness

24:05 The Role of Parenting

27:10 The Power of Resilience

30:03 The Path to Financial Success

32:57 The Fear of Rejection

45:42 The Numbers Game of Rejection

48:10 Learning the Sales Process

54:51 The Journey Through Different Countries

57:39 Life in Dubai: A Personal Perspective

01:00:13 Helping Others: The Power of Charity

01:08:30 The Documentary: A Story of Resilience

01:13:42 The Inner Struggle: Balancing Success and Responsibility

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#383: From External Success to Inner Struggle: Lousin Mehrabi in Conversation with Spencer Lodge on Rejection, Family Pressure & Finding Self-Worth