In this final chat of the year, hosts Seth and Tsh reflect on the passing of time, their listenership demographics, and their New Year's Eve tradition of posting reflection questions. They also discuss unexpected joy, personal changes, their favorite books of the year, connecting with like-minded readers and writers, the song 'All My Tears' by Julie Miller, and their appreciation for a local band called Blue Water Highway.
Moving to a small town and experiencing a strong sense of community has been a delightful surprise, with warm and welcoming people who genuinely connect and support each other.
Learning to say 'no' and set personal boundaries has brought about greater contentment and joy by prioritizing what aligns with personal values and offers a fulfilling return.
Deep dives
Unexpected joy and community in a small town
One of the unexpected joys of the past year was moving to a small town and experiencing a strong sense of community. Getting to know the people and feeling their open arms and genuine interest in connecting has been a delightful surprise. From casual hangouts to helping with tasks like deer hunting and butchering, the warm and welcoming community has made a significant impact.
Dealing with unexpected obstacles and embracing change
The past year brought unexpected obstacles and changes, some anticipated and others not. Navigating through these challenges and changes has been a learning process. It involved accepting and dealing with things that were out of control, recognizing personal growth, and adapting to new circumstances. Despite the difficulties, it has been a year of growth and resilience.
Learning to say 'No' and embracing personal boundaries
A significant personal change has been the ability to say 'no' and set personal boundaries. This change has involved learning to prioritize and recognize what is worth investing time and energy in. By confidently saying 'no' to things that don't align with personal values or don't offer a fulfilling return, greater contentment and joy have been experienced.
Finding connection through writing and Substack
One of the most rewarding aspects of the year has been the connection and community found through writing on Substack. Engaging with like-minded readers and writers who appreciate the craft of writing has been a joyful experience. The platform has provided opportunities to connect, engage in thoughtful discussions, and build relationships with fellow writers, fostering a sense of support and camaraderie.
In this final chat of the year, Seth and Tsh work through a few of her end-of-the-year questions—and you’re invited to do the same. They’re tougher than they initially seem!