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When Men Feel Invisible: The Silent Marriage Crisis | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep359

Jan 5, 2026
The hosts explore the silent crisis of men feeling invisible in modern marriages. They discuss how emotional neglect leads to men withdrawing despite their efforts. The episode reframes invisibility as tied to self-perception rather than just external factors. Financial boundaries and the impact of enabling behaviors are analyzed. Tips on fostering self-worth and mutual visibility challenge traditional advice. The conversation emphasizes the importance of respectful language and maintaining attraction to rebuild emotional connections.
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INSIGHT

Invisibility Tied To Self‑Worth

  • Men often feel invisible because they tie worth to being needed and validated at home.
  • Cass explains that when a man stops showing up emotionally and physically, he starts feeling unseen and inadequate.
ANECDOTE

ATM Pattern Starts Small

  • Cass shares men saying they feel like ATMs when boundaries and budgets weren’t enforced.
  • He notes those patterns usually started with small enabling choices that continued over time.
ADVICE

Fill Your Cup Before Seeking Validation

  • Do create purpose and fill your own cup so you aren't dependent on your spouse for identity.
  • Cass advises men to balance work, health, family, and purpose to prevent emotional depletion at home.
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