466: How to Cope with a Dying, Narcissistic Parent | Feedback Friday
Feb 5, 2021
The hosts dive deep into the emotional struggle of deciding whether to reconnect with a dying, narcissistic parent. They explore the importance of self-care and setting boundaries while navigating toxic familial ties. Listeners also get insights on how to handle being an informal therapist for someone who never takes advice, alongside strategies for dealing with career stagnation after years of hard work. Plus, the benefits of embracing age as an asset in professional life are highlighted, encouraging ongoing learning and growth.
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Reconciling with a Dying Narcissistic Parent
Consider your own needs when deciding whether to reconcile with a dying narcissistic parent.
Visiting them doesn't obligate you to forgive them or compromise your emotional growth.
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Prioritize Your Needs in Reconciliation
Focus on what you want when considering reconciliation, not just the dying parent's needs.
Ask yourself if a visit offers closure or if it risks compromising your well-being.
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Setting Boundaries with Narcissistic Parent
Set firm boundaries with the narcissistic parent.
Be prepared to leave if they disrespect your boundaries, demonstrating self-respect.
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In order to preserve your own sanity, you cut off all contact with your covert narcissist mom a few years ago. But now that she's dying, you wonder if you should reconcile for the short time she has left -- or regret not doing so once it's too late. What's the right thing to do here? We'll tackle this and more here on Feedback Friday!
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In order to preserve your own sanity, you cut off all contact with your covert narcissist mom a few years ago. But now she's dying and you wonder if you should reconcile for the short time she has left -- or regret not doing so once it's too late.
You've become a perpetual shoulder to cry on for someone who never follows your advice no matter how much time you devote to trying to help them. How do you gently quit the job of being this person's informal (and free) therapist?
You've been at your current job for seven years with no advancement in your pay or position in spite of exceeding expectations and never receiving a negative performance review. Your boss promised a raise two and a half years ago, but it still hasn't surfaced. What should you do?
You're 50 years old and have worked in the same industry for most of your adult life. You're interested in transitioning to a different career, but you're starting to wonder if your age is a help or a hindrance. When you show up to interviews with grey hair, does it communicate "experienced and reliable" or "old and obsolete?"
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