Jessica Alba, an actress and founder of The Honest Company, opens up about the misogyny she faced while launching her brand and how she rediscovered her identity over the years. She shares insights on the challenge of merging motherhood with entrepreneurship and reflects on the emotional toll of her journey. The discussion takes a humorous turn as she debates the merits of being killed with a knife versus a gun on set. Alba's reflections on parenting, social justice, and the importance of self-worth add depth to her inspiring narrative.
Prefering intimacy and conversation in a stabbing over the finality of being shot.
Advocating for strong female roles in action films and finding comfort on set.
Struggling with self-worth, focusing on intrinsic value, and embracing stillness for self-discovery.
Deep dives
Preference between getting shot or stabbed
Expressing a unique preference between being shot or stabbed, the speaker opts for being stabbed due to the perceived intimacy in the act. They value the potential for a conversation during a stabbing, which contrasts with the finality and loudness associated with being shot.
Finding joy in returning to action films
Discussing a love for action films and a desire to see women take on more active roles in them, the speaker reflects on their early career experiences. Noting a particular comfort in being on set and engaging in physical role preparation, the speaker emphasizes the appeal of portraying strong female characters in action genres.
Challenges in traditional Hollywood social settings
Exploring discomfort in mainstream Hollywood events, the speaker highlights a detachment from the competitive nature often fostered among actresses. They express a preference for the set environment, where they feel more at ease and focused on their craft, rather than conforming to industry expectations.
Embracing self-worth beyond achievements
Delving into self-worth and validation, the speaker expresses a struggle with detaching personal value from external accomplishments. They reflect on the journey towards recognizing intrinsic worth and the importance of accepting oneself beyond societal expectations. Highlighting the challenge of finding peace in stillness and resisting the urge to constantly achieve, they emphasize the ongoing process of self-discovery and self-acceptance.
Parenting approach and therapy insights
Sharing experiences with therapy for both personal growth and parenting guidance, the speaker discusses the importance of creating open and safe spaces for children to express themselves authentically. Reflecting on the role of therapy in fostering better parent-child relationships and breaking generational cycles of communication challenges, the speaker emphasizes the value of self-awareness and compassion in navigating family dynamics.
Actor and entrepreneur Jessica Alba discusses the challenges and the misogyny she faced starting The Honest Company, how she slowly reclaimed her identity, and why ten years later she has stepped away from the company. She and Trevor also debate whether it’s better to be killed with a gun or with a knife (on a movie set, not in real life where both are bad).