269: My Stepdaughter's Mom Is A Sex Worker | Feedback Friday
Oct 25, 2019
A listener wrestles with whether to inform her 14-year-old stepdaughter about her biological mother’s profession as a sex worker. They discuss the delicate balance of honesty and protection in family dynamics. The conversation highlights strategies for addressing complicated topics with teens and navigating social challenges that can arise. Insights into communication in relationships, both personal and professional, offer valuable advice on building understanding and support within families.
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Protecting the Child
Prioritize the daughter's well-being and have an honest conversation about her mother's profession.
The biological parents should lead the talk, ensuring the daughter feels safe and supported.
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Setting Boundaries with Dave
Set firm boundaries with Dave and communicate your time constraints clearly and respectfully.
If he persists, document the delays and escalate to his employer with a potential legal bluff.
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Helping Others Help Themselves
Initiate a conversation to understand what the sister-in-law truly wants out of life.
Support her in finding fulfillment and making her own choices.
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Your stepdaughter is 14 and has been living full time with you and your husband for about eight years. Every other weekend she spends with her mom, who you know is a sex worker. The stepdaughter just says her mom works away, but doesn't know what she does. Recently you were sent a screenshot of a Facebook post from another mom in your stepdaughter's class asking if it was real. The post had an ad for your stepdaughter's Mom's "services." You haven't answered yet because you don't know what to say. Since it's out on Facebook, should you give the stepdaughter a heads up that her mom takes money for sex, or do you let her get blindsided by the kids in school? On this Feedback Friday, we'll try to help you do the right thing here.
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