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Is your partner "the one?" Wrong question | George Blair-West

May 3, 2024
Psychiatrist George Blair-West discusses the evolution of love in marriages and the importance of asking key questions before tying the knot. He highlights the impact of dating duration on divorce rates, parental divorce on children, and the role of commitment in successful partnerships.
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  • Successful marriages require asking crucial questions before tying the knot, emphasizing compatibility and decision-making.
  • Longer courtships reduce divorce rates, highlighting the importance of informed decisions over solely romantic feelings.

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Reevaluating Romantic Love in Marriages

Psychiatrist George Blair West discusses how romantic love may not be the foundation of successful marriages, as seen in modern, arranged marriages. By analyzing data on legal marriages, he emphasizes the importance of preventing long-term relationship breakdowns instead of solely focusing on curing them. West challenges the conventional notion of 'finding the one' and highlights the significance of evaluating compatibility and making informed decisions for lasting relationships.

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