From Borderline to Beautiful: Hope and Help for BPD with Rose Skeeters, MA, LPC, PN2 Borderline Personality Disorder: The FP or Favorite Person
Jun 10, 2020
Dive into the emotional rollercoaster of having a Favorite Person when dealing with Borderline Personality Disorder. Discover the intense dependence that can complicate recovery and examine how this dynamic may hinder emotional stability. The discussion also tackles misconceptions surrounding the causes of BPD, shining a light on both genetic and environmental influences. With personal anecdotes and expert insights, this conversation unpacks the complexities of love and relationships in the context of this challenging disorder.
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What A Favorite Person Is
- The FP (favorite person) is an intense attachment where one person shapes your mood and identity.
- This bond can begin in childhood and later become a best friend or romantic FP.
Host's Breakup Felt Like Death
- Rose shares her own breakup was like a death because her ex was her FP.
- She describes feeling empty and believing there was no reason to go on without him.
Best Friend Versus FP
- A best friend is reciprocal while an FP is emotional dependence with little real give-and-take.
- FP moods and responsiveness directly determine the person's emotional state.