That Sounds Fun with Annie F. Downs You’re Not Alone: A Tender Conversation on Infant Loss and Trusting God in Grief with Tatum Green and David Thomas- Episode 1010
Oct 15, 2025
In this heartfelt conversation, Tatum Green, a mother who faced the tragic loss of her infant son TJ, shares her family's journey and discusses the creation of the children's book 'Where Did TJ Go?' to help others navigate similar grief. David Thomas, a licensed counselor, provides invaluable insights on supporting children through anticipatory grief and emphasizes that everyone's grief is unique. The duo advocates for open conversations about loss, offering practical steps for families to heal together.
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Family's Long Road To TJ
- Tatum describes multiple early losses including four miscarriages and an IVF failure before Sam and later TJ.
- TJ had a life-limiting diagnosis but lived 56 days between NICU and hospice at home with family present.
Family Barbecue During TJ's Final Days
- Annie recounts planning a family barbecue weekend when Meredith warned it might be TJ's last days.
- TJ stayed long enough for the family gathering, which Annie frames as a gift.
Follow Kids' Lead In Grief Talks
- Follow children's lead when talking about loss and answer only the questions they ask.
- Work through your own grief so you can be present but not overburden a child with your raw emotion.
