The Mating Grounds Podcast

Women Keep Flaking On Dates, What Do I Do?

Mar 3, 2015
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ANECDOTE

Caller: Lots Of Numbers, High Flake Rate

  • Caller: a 20-year-old from South Carolina gets many numbers but 90% don't follow up.
  • He uses eye contact, tonality, rapport, and social pressure to get coffee invites.
ADVICE

Treat Flakes As Feedback

  • Do treat flaking as a signal about priorities, not just bad behavior.
  • Do take responsibility and change your approach when many people cancel on you.
INSIGHT

Four Reasons People Cancel

  • Insight: People cancel for four main reasons that are about choice and context.
  • Expect some no-shows; it's human and part of dating dynamics.
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