Fantasies, fleshlights, courtesans, and surprisingly sexy minister training—BJ shares how he’s satisfying his curiosities and connecting enthusiastically with partners.

00:00 Embracing his shame-free 60s and recalling early experiences

07:01 Encyclopedia sex ed and filling in the gaps with imagination

12:24 Teaching his gym teacher about sex

19:14 Discovering self pleasure in a dark closet

24:03 Heavy petting and a cycle of guilt in college

27:07 Becoming a minister, explicit films in seminary, and sexuality in the old testament

34:31 Connecting with his wife through sensual massages and fantasy suite experiences

37:22 Playing with fleshlights, prostates, and lube

42:33 Satisfying his legal brothel curiosity

46:01 More love, less war, and pumping gasoline as a turn-on

56:07 Sex work fantasies and craving clothing optional spaces

📈STATS | 60s heterosexual cis male, he/him pronouns, non-monogamous, divorced, sexologist, retired pastor, musician, based in American rural midwest, into: connected touch, eye contact, nipple play, receiving blowjobs, painting his toenails

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