In this engaging discussion, David Buss, a prominent evolutionary psychologist and author, dives into the fascinating world of human mating strategies. He unpacks the biological and social underpinnings of sex differences in jealousy and infidelity. The conversation touches on the impact of dating apps, the nuances of polyamory, and the complexities surrounding the replication crisis in psychology. From ovulatory shifts in mate choice to the challenges of stepfamily dynamics, Buss shares insights that challenge stereotypes and reveal the intricacies of modern relationships.
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Evolutionary Psychology Controversies
Evolutionary psychology is controversial, especially among those who misunderstand it.
It challenges both the religious right, who reject evolution, and the left, who fear it hinders social justice.
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Sex Differences Denial
Denying sex differences, often seen on the left, is counterproductive.
Understanding these differences is crucial for addressing issues like sexual harassment and discrimination against women.
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Naturalistic Fallacy
Explaining behavior through evolution doesn't justify it as 'good'.
Humans possess numerous evolved adaptations, and we can choose which ones to activate or suppress.
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The Hidden Roots of Sexual Deception, Harassment, and Assault
David Buss
In 'When Men Behave Badly', David Buss delves into the evolutionary psychology behind male behaviors that interfere with women's choices and goals. The book identifies and documents various 'bad male behaviors' such as pretending to have more status or financial resources, engaging in secret sexual affairs, being hyper-vigilant and controlling, and physically and psychologically abusing women. Buss explains these behaviors through the lens of evolutionary selection, highlighting the role of the Dark Triad traits (narcissism, Machiavellianism, and psychopathy) in exacerbating these behaviors. The book also discusses how these behaviors can be addressed at both social and individual levels, emphasizing the need for women to be aware of these traits and for society to implement measures to prosecute and prevent such behaviors.
Sam Harris speaks with David Buss about the differential mating strategies of men and women. They discuss the controversy that surrounds evolutionary psychology, the denial of sex differences, cross-cultural findings in social science, the replication crisis in psychology, the biological definition of sex, why men and women have affairs, ovulatory shifts in mate preference, sex differences in jealousy and infidelity, the sources of unhappiness in marriage, mate-value discrepancies, what we can learn from dating apps, polyamory and polygamy, the plight of stepchildren, the “Dark Triad” personality type, the MeToo movement, and other topics.
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