006 Creating Peace Through the Holidays with Sharon Martin, LCSW

EPISODE

Episode 6

TITLE

Creating Peace Through the Holidays

GUEST

Sharon Martin, LCSW

EPISODE OVERVIEW

We talk about ways to make the holidays smoother—in terms of travelling, having guests, dealing with family members who may be challenging, feeling obligated, overspending, expectations, and lots of ways that Sensitives can provide better care for themselves during these times of overstimulation, high expectations and lots of activity.  Sharon explains what it’s like if a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) has a narcissist (or someone with narcissistic tendencies) in their life.  We talk about feeling criticized, and no matter what you do, it never feels like you’re enough or you’re good enough.  We talk a little about anxiety and depression and how counseling or therapy can help to gain insight into patterns that are from childhood. We talk about ways to take breaks; looking at new traditions, and being sure to take care of our basic needs

BIO

Sharon Martin, LCSW is a licensed psychotherapist, mental health writer, and media contributor on emotional health and relationships. Her psychotherapy practice, in San Jose, CA, specializes in helping perfectionists and people-pleasers embrace their imperfections and overcome self-doubt and shame. Her own struggle to feel “good enough”, inspired her passion for helping others learn to accept and love themselves. Sharon writes the popular blog Happily Imperfect for PsychCentral.com and is the author of the forthcoming book The CBT Workbook for Perfectionism.

HIGHLIGHTS

• Which parts of the holidays are overwhelming?
• You don’t have to do everything
• Take a lot of breaks
• If you are travelling to see family, consider staying in a hotel
• Be sure you’re taking care of your basic needs—sleep, nutrition, time alone, exercise, quiet time
• How to deal with challenging family members who may be narcissistic or are very critical
• Setting realistic expectations
• Prioritizing your values
• Recognizing limited resources
• Identifying where you feel obligated
• Fear of disappointing others

 

LINKS

website: https://LiveWellwithSharonMartin.com/

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sharonmartinlcsw/

blog: https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/

 

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