Queer Collective Podcast The Lesbian Identity Crisis: Trans And Non-Binary?! ft. Jay-Marie and Eirene
May 22, 2025
In this lively discussion, Jay-Marie Phillips, a community program manager and DJ from Trinidad, teams up with Eirene, a passionate advocate for non-binary identities. They tackle the evolving definitions of lesbian identity, challenging traditional notions while exploring themes of gender euphoria and dating as gender outlaws. The conversation dives into the complexities of attraction, community tensions, and the impact of societal pressures. Expect insights on navigating intimacy and the rich, messy legacy of lesbianism, all delivered with humor and heart.
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Lesbianism Beyond Biology
- Lesbianism is more than a sexual orientation; it includes cultural, relational, and community aspects.
- It transcends biology and embraces a broader social and political identity connected to femininity and womanhood.
Eirene's Early Gender Journey
- Eirene recalls always feeling masculine and being told she was 'not feminine enough' in a Catholic Filipino community.
- She also remembers early crushes on girls and journaling about her gender expression and desire from a young age.
Non-binary Identity Evolution
- Non-binary identities gained visibility recently; earlier, Eirene mainly attended lesbian events.
- Exploring masculine and feminine expression evolved her gender identity, with non-binary best capturing her experience.