Unveiling Mormonism Mormon Questions: Are Families Forever in Heaven?
The question of whether families are forever in heaven is a central tenet of Mormon theology, but how does this idea align with the Bible? The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), commonly known as Mormonism, teaches that families are eternal, and through specific temple ordinances, marriages can be sealed for time and eternity. This concept appeals to the deep human desire for everlasting connection with loved ones, yet the Bible presents a different perspective on the nature of relationships in eternity. In this episode we explore how biblical theology addresses this question and where it diverges from Mormon doctrine.
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The question of whether families are forever in heaven is a central tenet of Mormon theology, but how does this idea align with the Bible? The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints (LDS), commonly known as Mormonism, teaches that families are eternal, and through specific temple ordinances, marriages can be sealed for time and eternity. This concept appeals to the deep human desire for everlasting connection with loved ones, yet the Bible presents a different perspective on the nature of relationships in eternity. Let’s explore how biblical theology addresses this question and where it diverges from Mormon doctrine.
Mormon Doctrine on Eternal Families
Mormonism teaches that marriage, family, and human relationships can be eternal through sacred ordinances performed in their temples. A key scripture often cited by Mormons is found in Doctrine and Covenants 132:19, which discusses the sealing of marriages that can last "for time and all eternity." For faithful Latter-day Saints, this belief promises that family units will continue beyond this life, ensuring the continuation of their relationships forever.
What Does the Bible Say?
While the Bible affirms that relationships are important in this life and that marriage is a God-ordained institution, it does not teach that earthly family units, including marriages, will persist in their current form in heaven. Instead, the Bible offers a more profound view of eternal life in which all believers are united in Christ.
1. Marriage Does Not Continue in Heaven
One of the clearest statements about marriage in eternity comes from Jesus Himself. In Matthew 22:23–30, the Sadducees, who denied the resurrection, asked Jesus a tricky question about a woman who had been married multiple times—whose wife would she be in the resurrection? Jesus answered in verse 30, saying, “For in the resurrection they neither marry nor are given in marriage, but are like angels in heaven.”
Jesus’ response shows that earthly institutions like marriage do not continue in heaven. Instead, believers will experience relationships that are transformed, not bound by earthly categories like marriage or family. Think about the implications of marriage in heaven. Polygamy would exist!? This is clearly not an option according to the Bible.
2. Heavenly Relationships Are Perfected, not Eliminated
While the Bible does not affirm the continuation of earthly family units in heaven, it does teach that relationships will be perfect and glorified in eternity. In 1 Corinthians 13:12, Paul says, “For now we see in a mirror dimly, but then face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I have been fully known.” In heaven, believers will experience a depth of love, understanding, and unity with others far beyond what is possible on earth. Consider these verses:
- Ephesians 2:19 – The Household of God – “So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God.”
- 1 Thessalonians 4:16–17 – Reunion of Believers in Christ – “For the Lord himself will descend from heaven with a cry of command, with the voice of an archangel, and with the sound of the trumpet of God. And the dead in Christ will rise first. Then we who are alive, who are left, will be caught up together with them in the clouds to meet the Lord in the air, and so we will always be with the Lord.”
- John 14:2–3 – Dwelling in the Father's House – “In my Father’s house are many rooms. If it were not so, would I have told you that I go to prepare a place for you? And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and will take you to myself, that where I am you may be also.”
- Revelation 21:3–4 – God Dwells with His People – “And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, ‘Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God. He will wipe away every tear from their eyes, and death shall be no more, neither shall there be mourning, nor crying, nor pain anymore, for the former things have passed away.’”
- Revelation 7:9–10 – Unity of All Believers – “After this I looked, and behold, a great multitude that no one could number, from every nation, from all tribes and peoples and languages, standing before the throne and before the Lamb, clothed in white robes, with palm branches in their hands, and crying out with a loud voice, ‘Salvation belongs to our God who sits on the throne, and to the Lamb!’”
The New Testament presents heaven as a place where believers, regardless of their earthly families, will enjoy perfect fellowship with one another as brothers and sisters in Christ. Earthly distinctions, including marriage and family ties, will fade as all believers are united in Christ.
Ultimately, the Bible teaches that God’s eternal family is spiritual, not earthly. Jesus, when asked about His mother and brothers, redefined the family by saying, “Whoever does the will of my Father in heaven is my brother and sister and mother” (Matthew 12:50). In heaven, the family of God will be made up of all believers, united by faith in Christ, sharing in the joy of His presence forever.
3. Our Primary Relationship in Heaven is with Christ
The Bible teaches that in heaven, believers will be perfectly united in their relationship with God through Christ. Revelation 21:3 describes the eternal state, saying, “Behold, the dwelling place of God is with man. He will dwell with them, and they will be his people, and God himself will be with them as their God.” The focus of eternity is not on human relationships but on our perfect communion with God. While relationships with others will exist, they will be secondary to the overwhelming joy of being with Christ.
Furthermore, in Romans 8:16–17, the Bible emphasizes that believers are co-heirs with Christ, united in one family under God the Father. This passage points to the ultimate family of God, comprised of all believers who are spiritually adopted into His family, not through earthly bonds, but through faith in Christ.
Romans 8:15-17 (NLT) 15 So you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God’s Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, “Abba, Father.” 16 For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God’s children. 17 And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God’s glory. But if we are to share his glory, we must also share his suffering.
The Takeaway
The idea that families are forever in heaven, as taught by Mormonism, is not supported by the Bible. While the Bible affirms the beauty and significance of family life on earth, it teaches that marriage and earthly family structures will not persist into eternity. Instead, believers are promised something far greater: perfect communion with God and a transformed relationship with others, where the family of God is united forever in Christ.
Our hope should rest not in the continuation of earthly family units, but in the glorious future where all believers will be one in Christ, experiencing His perfect love and the fullness of joy in His presence forever.