Bobbi Klau: "The Perfect Gift"

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Jan 21, 2019

Join Bobbi Klau, a vibrant storyteller, singer, dancer, and actor, as she shares her unique gift-giving experiences. She reflects on the complexities of finding the perfect present within her long-lasting marriage, blending humor with heartfelt emotion. The discussion dives into storytelling techniques, including the balance of humor and authenticity, how to strategically place jokes, and the impact of a genuine narrative on audiences. Klau's insights illuminate the significant moments that shape our relationships and the art of storytelling itself.

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INSIGHT

Swiss Army Stories

Longer stories can be broken down into smaller, impactful anecdotes.
Bobbi Klau's story has three potential narratives.

ADVICE

Pacing in Storytelling

Vary pacing for authenticity and audience comprehension.
Comfortable silences are effective.

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Vonnegut's Storytelling Rule

Every sentence should reveal character or advance the plot.
Avoid jokes that don't serve these purposes.

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On episode #33 of the Speak Up Storytelling podcast, Matthew and Elysha Dicks talk storytelling!

In our followup segment, we thank our listeners, including American military personnel from around the world who have been reaching out to us this week, as well as those listeners kind enough to rate and review Speak Up Storytelling during this past week.

We went over 100 reviews and rating this week!

In our Homework for Life segment, we talk about how a simple but powerful statement from a stranger can be enough material for a story.

Next we listen to Bobbi Klau's story about the search for the perfect gift.

After listening, we discuss:

Pacing, both as it related to authenticity and the ability of the audience to follow a story
The power of humor at the top of a story, particularly when it demonstrates honesty, authenticity, and self-deprecation to your audience
Telling stories in scenes
Strategically humorous moments in stories vs. a joke placed within a story
Kurt Vonnegut's philosophy on short stories
The hazards of cultural references
Avoiding the de-activating of your audience's imagination when you need to provide your audience with information

Next, we answer a question about the difference between stories that end in a moment of emotional resonance vs. a light-hearted observation or decision and a question about the role of EQ vs. logic in storytelling.

Finally, we each offer a recommendation.

LINKS

Homework for Life: https://bit.ly/2f9ZPne

Wire Tap with Jonathan Goldstein: https://bit.ly/2W5pZbz

"Deformed Cow and the Moonlight Deer": https://bit.ly/2Do8OKS

Matthew Dicks's website: http://www.matthewdicks.com

Matthew Dicks's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/matthewjohndicks

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RECOMMEDATIONS

Elysha:

Workplace lunch clubs

Matt