No Stupid Questions 7. How Do You Handle Criticism?
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Jun 29, 2020 The discussion kicks off with the emotional hurdles of criticism and its role in personal growth. The speakers examine how feedback can be a double-edged sword, differentiating between constructive and unhelpful criticism. They humorously explore the concept of radical candor in workplace communications. A thought experiment prompts listeners to weigh the emotional stakes of sending congratulations versus condolences. Lastly, tips for supportive communication during friends' triumphs and tribulations are shared, emphasizing empathy and genuine engagement.
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Feedback Paradox
- People claim to want feedback but often resist it.
- This paradox arises because feedback, while beneficial for improvement, can also be painful to receive.
Sorting Criticism
- Embrace useful feedback, even if painful, to improve.
- Filter out criticism that is dogmatic, personal, or unbalanced.
Biased Reviews
- Stephen Dubner shares an anecdote about a writing workshop.
- Predictable biases emerged, revealing how personal taste influences feedback.