Therapy and Theology

S7 E4 | Are There Some People We Shouldn’t Trust Again?

Oct 10, 2024
Trust is a fragile thing, especially after betrayal. The discussion uncovers the essential steps to rebuild trust, emphasizing honesty and personal responsibility. With anecdotes and humor, the hosts reflect on parenting and the lessons of trust in their lives. They highlight the emotional challenges and the role of effective communication in mending relationships. Listeners learn about the balance between grace and accountability and the importance of patience and genuine repentance in the healing journey.
Ask episode
AI Snips
Chapters
Books
Transcript
Episode notes
INSIGHT

Trust Is the Oxygen of Relationships

  • Trust is essential oxygen for all human relationships, enabling vulnerability and depth.
  • Without trust, relationships lack true love and eventually lose life and vibrancy.
ADVICE

Repair Each Rip Specifically

  • Repair broken trust by addressing each specific rip instead of looking for one big repair.
  • Do personal "story work" to handle past wounds that affect current trust issues.
ADVICE

Choose Disclosure Over Discovery

  • Prefer disclosure where the offender openly admits wrongdoing before discovery occurs.
  • Continuous discoveries without prior admission deepen betrayal and reduce chances of repair.
Get the Snipd Podcast app to discover more snips from this episode
Get the app