Discover the secrets behind nonverbal communication and its pivotal role in human connections. Dive into the use of gestures, facial expressions, and tone of voice, and see how these elements enhance the storytelling in hit shows like The Big Bang Theory. Hear insights from experts who reveal how subtle cues shape emotions and bolster engagement. Explore the balance between authentic connection and manipulation, and learn techniques to improve your communication skills in everyday interactions.
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Dave Goetsch, a TV writer, landed a job on The Big Bang Theory by showcasing his nerdiness.
His anecdote about dressing as the Doppler effect in college convinced the showrunners he was a good fit.
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Nonverbal Communication's Importance
Nonverbal cues like tone and gestures often matter more than spoken words.
The Big Bang Theory's success relies on understanding characters through nonverbals, highlighting their awkwardness.
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Projecting Confidence
To project confidence, keep your shoulders away from your earlobes.
Use three slow nods and an eyebrow flash to make others feel confident and speak more.
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The Big Bang Theory: The Definitive, Inside Story of the Epic Hit Series offers a comprehensive behind-the-scenes exploration of the show, from its initial failed pilot to its global success. The book includes interviews with key figures like Chuck Lorre, Bill Prady, and the entire main cast, providing insights into casting decisions, personal struggles, and the show's impact on its fans. It's a must-have for fans of the series.
Supercommunicators
How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection
Charles Duhigg
In this book, Charles Duhigg explores the secrets of 'supercommunicators' who excel at connecting with others. He delves into the three distinct types of conversations—practical, emotional, and social—and provides practical strategies and case studies to illustrate how to recognize and navigate these conversations effectively. The book includes examples from various contexts, such as jury deliberations, CIA recruitments, and workplace interactions, to demonstrate how communication can be improved. Duhigg emphasizes the importance of active listening, identifying complex emotions, and matching the type of conversation to enhance connection and understanding.
Why is it that we can tell someone “I’m totally fine!” and they instantly know we’re not? Gestures, facial expressions, tone of voice, and other subtle nonverbal cues play a huge role in how we connect with one another.
In this episode, host Charles Duhigg explores how we communicate without words, including a deep dive into the visual and tonal cues embedded in one of the biggest sitcoms of all time, The Big Bang Theory.
He talks with Dr. Dustin York, a professor at Maryville University who studies nonverbal communication and worked in public relations for Barack Obama’s 2008 presidential campaign. He also sits down with Dave Goetsch, a co-executive producer and longtime writer for The Big Bang Theory, and journalist Jessica Radloff, who wrote an exhaustive book about the show.
This Slate miniseries dives into the art and science of meaningful conversations, inspired by
Supercommunicators was produced by Sophie Summergrad and Derek John, who also did the sound design. Our technical director is Merritt Jacob and our supervising producer is Joel Meyer.
Supercommunicators with Charles Duhigg 
