Making Sense with Sam Harris #411 — The Victimhood Pandemic
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Apr 25, 2025 
Scott Barry Kaufman, a humanistic psychologist and author of 'Rise Above', joins for an insightful discussion about the modern victimhood culture. He explores how narratives of suffering overshadow personal resilience, especially among youth. The conversation contrasts the personality traits of successful leaders with the dark triad of narcissism and psychopathy. Kaufman also examines how social media amplifies grievances and entitlement, influencing self-esteem across generational lines, while diving into the implications for free speech and identity politics.
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Victimhood Pandemic Concept
- We are living in a "victimhood pandemic" where people compete for victim status and its attendant benefits.
- Being perceived as a victim confers a moral typecasting of innocence and higher social value.
Realistic Self-Esteem Basis
- Healthy self-esteem requires realistic self-assessment and acknowledging one's impact on others.
- False or delusional high self-esteem can disconnect individuals from social reality and hinder growth.
Charisma Beyond Narcissism
- Narcissistic individuals attract others due to their confidence, not their entitlement or arrogance.
- Charisma can be quiet and introverted, rooted in conviction rather than narcissistic grandiosity.
