Where do I start? Talking about sex to your kid with ADHD

In this episode, hosts Gretchen Vierstra and Rachel Bozek welcome Amy Lang. Amy is a sex educator who works with kids with learning and thinking differences. She is also the founder of birdsandbeesandkids.com. She helps the hosts tackle a tricky but essential topic: talking to kids with ADHD about sex. Here are just a few of the topics Amy talks about:

• Ways to talk about — and not talk about — body parts.
• Helping kids understand how to navigate these topics both inside and outside the home.
• Why these conversations are so important.

Listen for tips on how you can make these talks comfortable and effective. It’s a thoughtful, honest conversation that will help parents, caregivers, or anyone wondering how to support kids as they learn about sex.

Related resources

• 8 ways to help teens with ADHD avoid dating trouble spots
• ADHD and sex
• Sex, intimacy, and ADHD
• Birds + Bees + Kids

Timestamps

(1:39) When your child starts the conversation 

(7:00) The importance of social cues

(9:21) Kids being well-informed

(11:28) What age to start talking about sex with your kid

(14:00) Using the real names of body parts

(17:04) Talking to kids at different ages

(20:00) Potential challenges

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