The Nature of Love and Attachment

Love is presented as an active choice rather than a mere reaction to attraction. While many view love as a spontaneous feeling triggered by initial attraction, it is emphasized that true love involves conscious decision-making and acceptance of the other person’s inherent nature. Stoicism teaches to love without attachment, meaning to appreciate the person as they are without attempting to change them. This perspective allows individuals to focus more on their actions within a relationship rather than controlling their partner's behaviors or expectations.