Sneak Peek: Why people lose themselves in parenthood — and how to reclaim your sense of self
Aug 17, 2023
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Author Jessica Grose discusses the challenges and changes of modern parenthood, including the unsustainability of American motherhood. She provides practical advice on rethinking traditional parenthood and creating a personalized roadmap for being a parent.
Parenthood in the modern world requires individuals to redefine their own paths and expectations, as traditional milestones and ideals have evolved.
To navigate the changes in parenthood, it is crucial to challenge preconceived notions, create our own roadmap, and shape our identities as both people and parents.
Deep dives
Redefining Parenthood in Modern Times
Jessica Gross's analysis highlights the significant societal changes that have transformed the landscape of parenthood. In the past, the silent generation had a majority of people living with a spouse and a child at the age of 40, whereas now, only 30% of millennials share a similar living situation. This shift necessitates a reevaluation of our expectations and understanding of what it means to become a parent in the modern world. The traditional milestones and ideals of the stereotypical American dream have evolved, requiring individuals to redefine their own paths to parenthood.
Challenging the Status Quo of Parenting
Jessica Gross emphasizes the need to challenge preconceived notions and outdated scripts that associate with traditional parenthood. With the understanding that parenthood has changed, it is now crucial to create our own roadmap to guide us through this transitional phase. Jessica provides practical advice on how to navigate these changes and encourages individuals to shape their own identities as both people and parents. By embracing the shifting dynamics of modern life, we can redefine our understanding of parenting and forge a path that aligns with our unique values and aspirations.
You’ve prepped the nursery, read all the books, and are eagerly waiting to meet the new member of your family. But are you also ready to meet the new version of yourself? For Apple News In Conversation’s “Think Again” series, host Shumita Basu talks to Jessica Grose, author of Screaming on the Inside: The Unsustainability of American Motherhood, about the ways parenthood can change you, the lack of societal support for this seismic life shift, and how reconnecting with your sense of self can help you navigate it. Listen to the full interview on Apple Podcasts.
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