The Brian Lehrer Show How Helping Can Feel Good
Jul 9, 2025
This discussion reveals the emotional intricacies of seeking and offering help during pivotal life moments. It highlights how both giving and receiving assistance can bring joy and deepen connections, illustrated through a touching organ donation story. Personal anecdotes emphasize the importance of community support and the uplifting power of kindness. Listeners share surprising moments of help, challenging the idea that asking for assistance is burdensome, and showcasing how these interactions foster profound relationships.
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Underestimating Help Availability
- People often underestimate how likely others are to say yes to a request for help by about 50%.
- People also underestimate how happy helping others can make the giver feel.
Ask for Help Anytime
- Don't wait for major life events like weddings or funerals to ask for help.
- Asking for help more often can reveal that you have more support available and strengthen relationships.
Life-Saving Liver Donation
- Nadia donated part of her liver to her husband's cousin's baby despite having three kids and inconvenience.
- This deepened her relationship with the extended family on an almost blood-related level.