Become New with John Ortberg

5. How to Remove Condemnation from Your Mind (Luke 18)

Jan 26, 2026
A frank look at how a condemning mind forms and why ‘us versus them’ thinking feels spiritual. The parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector is used to expose hidden contempt. Reflections on why keeping distance feels righteous and how Jesus refuses to exclude anyone. A practical call to notice who you silently look down on and to choose humility instead.
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INSIGHT

The Us Vs. Them Habit

  • Social identity instinctively splits people into an "us" and a "them."
  • John Ortberg shows this split fuels contempt and selective empathy in spiritual life.
ANECDOTE

Parable Of Two Men At The Temple

  • John Ortberg retells Jesus' parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector set at the temple.
  • The Pharisee prays publicly to highlight his righteousness and distinguish himself from the "other."
INSIGHT

Merit Badges Mask Self-Righteousness

  • Condemnation shows up when we compare ourselves and list our 'merit badges.'
  • The Pharisee's fasting and tithing become tools of superiority, not true measures of love.
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