

Not Tonight: Midlife sex and relationships, with Dr Shahzadi Harper
In our fifth episode Katie speaks to Dr Shahzadi Harper about the impact menopause can have on sex, treatments for physical symptoms, how to speak to your partner about it, and how to get the spark back.
In this episode:
0:41 Why do our hormones affect the vagina, vulva and other areas?
3:20 The impact of these changes on women’s lives and relationships
5:00 Declining testosterone
5:38 Treatment options
8:48 How can we talk to our partners about this?
13:14 How to approach your doctor and pharmacist about oestrogen and testosterone
19:22 Dr Harper’s book
21:03 A final top tip
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Would you like some extra support with managing your menopause symptoms?
Here's a few ways we can help:
- Katies's Book - Midlife Matters will be published by DK RED on March 6th 2025 and is now available to pre order now here!
- The Latte Lounge + is our online menopause clinic where you can get an online appointment with a menopause doctor, a personalised treatment plan and prescriptions delivered to your door, all for an affordable monthly payment. More info here.
- The Latte Lounge Membership: join Katie in the inner hub for just £9.99 a month and you'll get a monthly practical masterclasses (things like taster menopause yoga sessions, Q&As with menopause specialists etc), members-only content (including 'cheat sheet' summaries of our podcast episodes), how-to guides and resources, and closer support from Katie when you need it. More info here.
- Our free menopause symptom tracker: download our free symptom resource to check, track and understand your symptoms. DOWNLOAD FOR FREE HERE.
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Links from this episode:
Dr Harper’s book - The Perimenopause Solution: Take control of your hormones before they take control of you by Dr Shahzadi Harper and Emma Bardwell
Website - https://theharperclinic.com/
The Latte Lounge’s menopause resources: www.lattelounge.co.uk/menopause
Thank you to:
This series is sponsored by Sylk Natural Lubricant.
It was produced by Emily Crosby Media.
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