Cleared Hot Episode 408 - Josh Tomeoni - Life, Divorce, Rebuilding, Financial Security
Sep 22, 2025
Josh Tomeoni, a men's coach and financial expert, dives deep into the challenges men face during divorce and midlife transitions. He shares insights from his contentious divorce, emphasizing the gaps left by traditional legal processes and the need for divorce coaching. Josh also discusses the impact of divorce on children and the importance of modeling healthy relationships. He critiques toxic masculinity, highlighting the need for male support systems and the emotional fallout from identity loss. Plus, the risks of remarriage offer food for thought!
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Small Towns Foster Practical Community
- Community and smaller-town ties create tangible support networks absent in larger cities.
- Josh and Andy contrast rural collaboration with anonymity of big-city living using Portland and Montana examples.
Markets Do What Markets Do
- Expect markets to behave unpredictably and avoid firm predictions; focus on long-term allocation.
- Josh notes a few mega-cap stocks have driven most S&P returns, so diversification awareness matters.
Midlife Divorce Strips Identity
- Divorce and midlife upheaval strip identity for many men and expose hidden vulnerabilities.
- Josh says men lack a middle space between 'buck up' and endless therapy to process these losses authentically.