Ethical Seduction

Ethical Seduction #083 - How to Spot Inauthentic People.

Mar 13, 2023

Learn to spot inauthentic people and avoid wasting time and energy on them. Discover traits like manipulation, attention-seeking, and cockiness that indicate someone is being inauthentic. Trust your gut feelings, beware of perfectionism, and prioritize authentic connections. Get tips on identifying and avoiding inauthentic people for a more positive experience.

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Inauthentic behavior can be identified through traits like manipulativeness, attention-seeking, people-pleasing, cockiness, lack of consistency, hiding emotions, and pretending to be perfect.

Recognizing signs of inauthenticity early on allows you to protect yourself from potential harm, disappointment, and wasted time and emotional energy, and focus on building connections with authentic individuals.

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Be aware of inauthenticity and protect yourself

When meeting new people, it's important to be on guard for signs of inauthenticity. Pay attention to your gut feelings and trust them. If something doesn't seem right, it's important to listen to your intuition. By being aware and alert, you can protect yourself from potential harm or disappointment.

Introduction

4min

Encountering Inauthentic People in Relationships

10min

Traits of Being Inauthentic

6min

The Problem of Attention-Seeking and Inauthenticity

11min

The Importance of Trusting Your Gut Feelings

2min

The Perfection Trap

9min

The Three Date Rule and Prioritizing Authentic Connection

4min

Identifying and Avoiding Inauthentic People

3min

Just about everyone has some experience about being misled or tricked because the other person they met wasn’t honest or upfront about who they were or what they wanted. People lie about their appearances, age, what they want, how they feel, and what their intentions actually are! At the very least this can waste your time and drain your emotional energy, but we all know it can get much worse than that!

This episode will give you specific things to look for in order to spot when someone is lying, misrepresenting themselves, or being manipulative. We want you to be able to spot the inauthentic people so you can be safe, weed them out, and focus your time and attention on the people who matter.

Here is a list of the negative, inauthentic traits we will help you identify and deal with.

Manipulative and judgmental types who want to control you.
Attention seekers who will drain you.
People pleasers who secretly want something from you.
Cockiness used as a tool to either impress you or belittle you.
Identifying a lack of consistency in someone.
Being wary of those who hide their emotions.
People who act perfect because they are hiding who they are.

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