The Partnership Podcast How to Heal Wounds in Relationship | Trey’s Memory from 1994, Adam Sandler & Active Imagination
In this short but powerful episode of The Partnership Podcast, Lauren and Trey pick up right where they left off.
Lauren invites Trey to share what he’s been exploring around his source wound, and he opens up about a childhood memory from 1994 — sitting in a car, hearing Adam Sandler’s “The Chanukah Song,” and feeling an intense response in his 10-year-old body.
With the help of a meditative practice inspired by Dr. Joe Dispenza, and guided by Lauren, Trey revisits this memory using active imagination — and discovers how much healing can happen when a partner helps you repattern what once felt too big to hold alone.
Together, they talk through what it’s like to do this kind of inner child work in relationship, how safety can be renegotiated when met with presence, and why they’d like to apply the same toolset to old wounds from their recent NYC rupture.
Timestamps:
00:00 Why Trey wanted to share this memory
02:55 The 1994 car memory & The Chanukah Song
06:45 Active imagination as a relational repair tool
10:30 Trey’s nervous system response & what helped
12:50 Can we use this process for NYC too?
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