Keep It Clean, Keep It Dirty | Finding Balance in Marriage | The 'NEW' Marriage | Ep326

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Oct 13, 2025

Exploring the delicate balance of passion and purity in marriage, the hosts share insights on maintaining intimacy over time. They discuss how treating each day like a first date can prevent couples from taking each other for granted. Tips on keeping arguments respectful and avoiding resentment, especially with new parenthood, are highlighted. The importance of small habits in fostering desire and the power of spontaneity in long-term relationships are also emphasized, making for a playful and insightful conversation about sustaining love.

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ANECDOTE

Meeting A 50-Year-Flirting Couple

Cass and Kathryn met a couple at a bar who had been married for 50 years and clearly flirted with each other openly.
The hosts used this encounter to introduce the couple's relationship rules and spark the episode's themes.

ADVICE

Treat Every Day Like A First Date

Treat every day like your first date by showing up with manners, compliments, and effort.
Maintain curiosity and presentation to avoid becoming someone your partner wouldn't want to date again.

ANECDOTE

New-Parent Pressure Threatens Courtesy

Kathryn describes how new parents must protect their relationship by sharing childcare and allowing breaks to avoid contempt.
Cass and Kathryn use this example to warn that familiarity breeds contempt when couples stop practicing courtesy.

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Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.

Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.

Keep It Clean, Keep It Dirty!

In marriage, passion and purity both matter — but too many couples lose the spark trying to stay “perfect.”
In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we talk about balancing emotional connection with physical desire — why healthy sexuality is vital to long-term love, and how to keep things real, playful, and sacred at the same time.

We dive into how shame, fear, and conditioning can kill attraction, and what it takes to create a relationship that’s both emotionally safe and sexually alive.

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Join Cass Morrow and Kathryn Morrow, the resilient couple behind Morrow Marriage. Together, we share our unscripted, raw, and against-the-grain journey of saving our marriage from the depths of Hell. We battle narcissism, emotional abuse, reactive abuse, and physical and sexual assault, offering lessons, actionable steps, and real-life examples to inspire couples worldwide.

Our journey is a testament to overcoming adversity, with challenges including Cass’ restraining order, seven separations, and two divorce lawyers. If we can survive and thrive in toxic, abusive, and sexless marriages, what’s your excuse?

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