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New Books in Psychology

Neil Vickers and Derek Bolton, "Being Ill: On Sickness, Care and Abandonment" (Reaktion Books, 2024)

Oct 5, 2024
Neil Vickers, a Professor of English literature with a keen focus on medicine, and Derek Bolton delve into the complexities of illness, care, and social dynamics. They explore how serious health challenges can reshape interpersonal relationships, emphasizing the isolation felt by both the ill and their caregivers. Drawing on neuroscience and personal narratives, they advocate for communal support systems over individualistic approaches. The conversation highlights the critical role of empathy and connection in fostering resilience during illness.
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  • The experience of illness significantly alters relationships, often leading to feelings of abandonment and social isolation for the sick.
  • Generous support systems in non-WEIRD cultures highlight the importance of communal care in contrast to individualistic perspectives on health.

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The Intersection of Illness and Relationships

Serious illness encompasses not just medical treatment but also the vital role of relationships in the experience of being unwell. The authors emphasize that narratives of illness often reveal how friendships can diminish, with many individuals encountering feelings of abandonment from those around them. This highlights an important societal issue: as individuals face health challenges, they often feel pushed to the margins of society, which contrasts sharply with experiences in collectivist cultures where support systems remain robust. The book suggests that understanding the relational dynamics during illness is critical to addressing the stigma and social isolation often experienced by the ill.

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