
The Audio Long Read From the archive: ‘Infertility stung me’: Black motherhood and me
Oct 15, 2025
Dive into the complex journey of Black motherhood and infertility as Edna Bonhomme candidly shares her experiences. She delves into the gaps in reproductive health data and challenges the assumption of reproductive agency. Edna contrasts her experiences with IVF and healthcare systems in the U.S. and Germany, highlighting the impact of medical racism and maternal mortality. Through personal anecdotes and community discussions, she paints a poignant picture of the emotional toll of infertility and the quest for new parenting narratives.
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Contradictory Narratives About Black Fertility
- Bonhomme highlights contradictory narratives: myth of Black hyperfertility versus data showing compromised fertility and higher maternal mortality.
- She links these contradictions to systemic racism in US and UK reproductive healthcare outcomes.
Pregnancy In Germany Changed Expectations
- In 2024 Edna unexpectedly became pregnant after years of infertility, experiencing excellent prenatal care in Germany.
- She credits universal healthcare and social support for changing her expectations about childbirth possibilities.
Repeated IVF Failures And Their Toll
- Edna Bonhomme describes multiple painful IVF cycles that repeatedly failed despite surgeries and tests.
- She recounts the physical and emotional toll of injections, hot flushes, weight gain, and dashed hopes.





