

Curb Appeal: Finding Home After Loss with Rev. Steven Tomlinson
26 snips Dec 3, 2024
Rev. Steven Tomlinson, an Episcopal priest, playwright, and former economist, shares his poignant journey through grief after losing his partner, David. He reflects on how writing his play 'Curb Appeal' aided his healing process. Tomlinson discusses the intertwined themes of loss and community, emphasizing the vital role of faith and connection in navigating grief. He highlights the importance of living fully in the present, the power of shared experiences, and transformative moments of hope amidst despair.
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Curb Appeal Play
- Rev. Steven Tomlinson wrote "Curb Appeal" after losing his partner, David.
- The play explores the humor and heartbreak of house hunting and dating after loss.
Curb Appeal as a Metaphor
- "Curb Appeal" represents our desire for connection and the fantasies we project onto potential partners and homes.
- True intimacy requires looking beyond superficial appeal.
Grieving the Familiar
- Tomlinson grieved not a fantasized future but the comfortable routines and arguments that defined his relationship with David.
- These arguments represented intimacy and a sense of being seen.