From the Archives: Six Decisions that Will Set Us Apart as Biblical Men | Featuring Brant Hansen
Feb 12, 2024
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Brant Hansen, author of Unoffendable, discusses the six decisions that set men apart and help them realize God's purpose for their life. They explore topics such as challenging stereotypical notions of masculinity, finding value in every job, teaching boys how to treat women, and the importance of protecting the vulnerable.
Being a keeper of the garden means creating a space of security and growth for the vulnerable around us, emphasizing the importance of protection and care as central to masculinity.
Becoming a biblical man involves taking responsibility for one's spiritual life, being ambitious about the right things, valuing meaningful relationships and responsibilities, and recognizing the significance of work as an opportunity to serve others and find meaning.
Deep dives
The Foundation of Manhood: Being a Keeper of the Garden
In this podcast episode, Brant Hanson discusses the concept of being a keeper of the garden as the foundation of manhood. He explains that this idea comes from the biblical story of Adam and his role in tending to the garden. While it may not seem stereotypically manly, Hanson suggests that this role of protection and care is central to masculinity. He argues that the church and society have deconstructed masculinity without offering a clear vision of what men should strive for. Becoming a keeper of the garden means creating a space of security and growth for the vulnerable around us, just as a gardener allows vulnerable plants to thrive.
The Six Decisions that Set Men Apart
Hanson shares insights from his book 'The Men We Need' and highlights six decisions that can set men apart and help them realize their purpose. One decision is taking responsibility for one's spiritual life, emphasizing the importance of loyalty and consistent interaction with God. Another decision involves being ambitious about the right things, seeking wisdom and prioritizing meaningful relationships and responsibilities. Hanson also addresses the allure of video games and virtual experiences, explaining how they can make real-life experiences seem boring by comparison. The book also explores the significance of work and how even seemingly mundane or challenging jobs can bring meaning and opportunities to serve others.
Treating Women with Respect and Protecting the Vulnerable
In this episode, Hanson emphasizes the importance of treating women with respect and protecting the vulnerable. He challenges the stereotypes and misconceptions around biblical masculinity and discusses the role of men in creating a sense of security rather than threat. Hanson shares a personal story about teaching his son the importance of being a protector and witnessing the positive response from women when men fulfill this role. He also addresses the issue of pornography and video game addiction, highlighting how these fake experiences can hinder personal growth and meaningful relationships. Lastly, Hanson encourages men to make conscious choices today that align with the kind of men they want to become.
We open up the Archives and share an episode every man needs to hear. Brant Hansen, author of Unoffendable, joins Adam to discuss his new book, The Men We Need: God's Purpose for the Manly Man, the Avid Indoorsman, or Any Man Willing to Show Up.
Brant, through his vulnerability and signature humor, explains the six decisions that will set men apart and help them realize God's purpose for their life.
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