The podcast dives into Cami's therapy session, her realization about using 'Daddy' and 'babygirl' in the bedroom. They recount a play party experience with a couple. They discuss re-parenting and letting go of the connection between 'daddy' and their relationship with their father. They promote a wearable vibrator and explore the use of terms like 'daddy' and 'baby girl' in sexual encounters.
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Using terms like 'daddy' in the bedroom may stem from unmet childhood needs for validation and care.
Re-parenting one's inner child and prioritizing self-care can lead to self-empowerment and healthier relationships.
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Letting Go of the "Daddy" Dynamic
In this podcast episode, the speaker discusses their decision to remove the term "daddy" from their vocabulary in the bedroom. They reflect on the realization that they were using the term to fulfill unmet childhood needs, specifically related to their relationship with their fathers. The speaker shares their journey of re-parenting their inner child and embracing self-empowerment. They highlight the importance of acknowledging and working through childhood traumas and programming, and finding ways to provide self-care and validation as adults. The speaker also explores the impact of this decision on their sexual experiences and interactions with partners, emphasizing the importance of ongoing self-exploration and growth in the realm of kink and sexuality.
Reevaluating Parental Roles
The podcast episode delves into the speaker's experience of feeling the pressure to be a parent figure for their family members during difficult times, highlighting the challenges and emotional toll it took on them. They discuss the process of reevaluating their role and realizing the need to focus on their own self-care and boundaries. The speaker shares their journey of therapy and the importance of recognizing and releasing the responsibilities of parenting others, allowing themselves to prioritize their own needs and well-being. They express the empowering realization that they are no longer dependent on external parental figures, as they have learned to provide love, care, and validation for themselves.
Inner Child Work: Healing and Growing
The podcast episode explores the speaker's experience of engaging in inner child work in therapy. They discuss the significance of this process in identifying and addressing childhood traumas, specifically related to their upbringing and relationships with their parents. The speaker shares the realization that they needed to release the influence of their parents and become their own parent, providing love, support, and care for their inner child. They discuss the challenges and empowering insights that arose through this process, highlighting the importance of acknowledging past wounds and actively working towards healing and personal growth.
Exploring Trust and Kink
The podcast episode touches on the speaker's exploration of trust in the realm of kink and BDSM. They reflect on the significance of trust and how it influences their ability to fully engage in power dynamics and submission. The speaker shares their past experiences with professional dominants and the level of trust they had built with them, noting the high standards they held for future partners in terms of trust and power exchange. They emphasize the desire to find a partner with whom they can once again establish a strong foundation of trust to fully engage in their kink preferences. The speaker also acknowledges the importance of open-mindedness, communication, and consent when exploring kink and BDSM dynamics.
Hey fam :) Today we dive into one of Cami's therapy sessions that gave her a major realization related to her use of "Daddy" and "babygirl" in the bedroom. It was an empowering moment, and one that incited a lot of introspection. She also recounts a play party she went to last week, where she got to play with a hot couple. Niki is still boring and celibate AF so not much from her.
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