Abdullah Oduro 3 Halal Ways To Approach a Muslim Woman for Marriage - without feeling awkward
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Oct 17, 2025 This discussion dives into the delicate art of approaching a Muslim woman for marriage without the awkwardness. It emphasizes the importance of seeking permission respectfully and getting straight to the point. Practical advice highlights the need to convey serious, faith-based intentions. Historical examples help illustrate effective approaches, while cautioning against the pitfalls of DM culture. The conversation is peppered with encouragement to take risks for love, all while maintaining respect and boundaries.
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DM Culture Undermines Leadership
- DM culture has weakened men's ability to lead and converse in honorable ways and increases passivity or awkwardness.
- Overreliance on indirect messaging often causes missed opportunities or inappropriate impulsive behavior.
Always Seek Permission First
- Seek permission before speaking to a sister by approaching her wali, a mutual contact, or politely asking her directly.
- Keep distance and ask briefly if you may speak for a couple of minutes to show respect and seriousness.
Be Direct And Succinct
- Get straight to the point when you speak: state clearly that you're interested in marriage and want to meet families.
- Avoid prolonged social chat that invites emotional entanglement and unclear intentions.