In this podcast, the hosts discuss self-worth, self-love, and the belief of what makes us lovable. They also talk about the exhaustion of unfulfilling jobs and the changing nature of the workforce. The chapter explores the concept of loving someone for who they are rather than what they do for you. They end with plans for a sex party, 'Anal August,' and upcoming projects.
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Self-love should be based on intrinsic qualities, not external accomplishments.
Love should be unconditional and not tied to expectations or what someone can offer.
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The importance of self-love and worthiness
This episode explores the concept of self-love and the idea that one is lovable simply because they are themselves. The hosts discuss how society often conditions us to believe that we need to prove our lovability by doing things for others or by having certain external accomplishments. However, they emphasize that our worthiness of love should not be tied to these external factors. Instead, they encourage listeners to cultivate a sense of self-love and to recognize their own value independent of societal expectations.
Understanding the difference between transactional and unconditional love
The hosts delve into the difference between transactional love and unconditional love. They highlight that in many relationships, whether romantic or platonic, there is an inclination to give love and expect something in return. However, they challenge this notion and advocate for loving someone simply for who they are, rather than for what they do or provide. They share personal experiences and reflect on the importance of valuing people for their intrinsic qualities rather than for what they can offer.
The journey of healing and self-reflection
The hosts share their own healing journeys and emphasize the importance of inner work. They discuss how exploring their own traumas and programming has led to personal growth and a deeper understanding of themselves. They talk about the role of therapy, working with healers, and engaging in self-reflection to deconstruct societal conditioning and develop healthier perspectives on self-worth and relationships.
Embracing change in the workforce and society
The hosts touch on the changing landscape of work and the exhaustion that many individuals feel in the current capitalist system. They discuss the need for a shift in the way we perceive and prioritize work, emphasizing that burnout and the desire for a healthier work-life balance are valid. They also mention the impact of societal pressure and the expectation to have a stable job, and how letting go of these expectations can lead to personal growth and a greater sense of fulfillment.
Hello DT Fam :) today we dive into the topics of self worth, self love, and what many of us have been programmed to believe makes us loving or lovable to our partners/friends/family, etc. This came up in a recent session for Niki, and of course it had her reflecting on a lot of what makes her feel lovable to others. We also talk a bit about how draining it can be to sit in unfulfilling jobs, even when we are grateful for them.
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