

You are not your identity
5 snips Sep 22, 2024
Explore the risk of tying your worth to external affiliations like jobs and sports teams. Discover how this attachment can distort your self-identity. The conversation highlights the importance of developing an authentic identity rooted in personal values. Learn to embrace resilient ideals that foster a harmonious self-concept, allowing you to rise above external criticism and conflicts. It's a fascinating journey into the psychology of identity and personal growth!
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We Language and Identity
- People often use "we" language when discussing sports teams or companies they're associated with.
- This identification, while seemingly harmless, can lead to conflict and emotional investment in outcomes they don't control.
Acquired Identities
- Most things people identify with are adopted, not inherent.
- There's no such thing as an inherent identity, challenging the notion of a fixed self.
Vulnerability through Identification
- Identifying with groups makes their fears, hopes, and problems your own.
- This makes individuals vulnerable to attack when those aspects are criticized.