This episode marks the final PM Talks conversation of the 2025 calendar year, and it’s a fitting one: Patrick and I explore legacy — not as something we engineer, but as something that unfolds in the stories others tell about us. As always, this episode is part of our monthly PM Talks series, and it might be the most reflective note we’ve ended on so far.
We talk about time, presence, family, uncertainty, and the way small choices echo long after we’re gone. This one weaves philosophy into the everyday in a way that feels real, grounding, and honestly necessary as we close out the year.
Six Discussion Points
- Why time feels like it’s accelerating as we age, and how presence slows the smaller slices of our days
- The balance between certainty and agency — and how we navigate what we do and don’t control
- Why trying to “control” your legacy is ultimately a losing battle
- How stories — both true and inferred — shape the legacies we inherit and the ones we leave
- The importance of documenting your own story so others don’t have to invent one later
- How everyday tasks, decisions, and moments of presence quietly become the stories others use to remember us
Three Connection Points
Legacy isn’t a monument — it’s a story, shaped by moments we’re often too busy to notice. This conversation reminded me that what endures isn’t the grand plan, but the small choices, the presence we bring, and the stories people choose to carry forward. Thanks for being with us through another year of PM Talks. There’s a lot more ahead in the next season.


