No Rewind Button: Why "It Never Happened Before" Isn't Enough, with Rabbi Yakov Horowitz and Rabbanit Dr. Yardaena Osband (278)

Jan 26, 2026

Rabbanit Dr. Yardena Osband, pediatrician and Torah educator, and Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz, child-safety advocate and educator, discuss community safety and prevention. They explore why longevity does not equal safety. They examine faith versus responsibility, cognitive denial in communities, vaccine trust, practical safety measures, and how leaders can model and enforce protective norms.

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No Rewind: Comfort Can't Replace Responsibility

Saying “it was the will of God” can comfort, but it can also shut down responsibility and safety reform.
Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz warns that there is no rewind button after preventable tragedies.

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Defer To Medical Experts For Health Policy

Ask experts, not politicians, about medical decisions and follow medical advice for public health measures.
Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz required vaccinations for his yeshiva and checked pediatricians' opinions.

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Faith Can Amplify Denial Of Risk

Belief that "everything is for the good" intensifies denial of preventable harms in faith communities.
Rabbi Yaakov Horowitz links this to the 'just world' bias that blocks safety recognition.

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Last week in Jerusalem, two babies lost their lives.

The details are painful. The families are grieving. And out of basic decency, we are not here to dissect the specifics of what happened.

But moments like these force a question that is deeply uncomfortable, yet absolutely unavoidable.

When tragedy strikes, especially tragedy that may have been preventable, what are we supposed to do next?

Too often, our instinct is to move quickly toward comfort. We say things like "it was the will of God," or "these things happen," or "this place had been used safely for years."

And sometimes those words help people survive unbearable loss.

But they can also become a way of shutting down responsibility.

Because in real life, there is no rewind button.

You don't get to go back and tighten a safety standard after something goes wrong. You don't get to undo a moment that lasted seconds but changed lives forever.

In this episode of the Orthodox Conundrum Podcast, I'm joined by Rabbi Yakov Horowitz and Rabbanit Dr. Yardaena Osband for a serious, honest, and at times difficult conversation about safety in the Orthodox world.

We talk about why communities often confuse longevity with safety. Why "it never happened before" is not the same thing as "it can't happen."

We explore the tension between faith and responsibility, between trust in God and our obligation to protect life using the knowledge and tools available to us.

And we discuss what it means to build a culture where safety isn't treated as fear, but as an obligation.

This is not a conversation about blame.

It's a conversation about responsibility… before the next tragedy forces us to have it again.

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