Howie Gordon, a former porn star, and his son Bobby discuss sex, shame, and dirty movies in a heartfelt conversation. They explore the challenges of Howie's past as an adult film actor and his journey as a father, highlighting the importance of open communication in their unique family dynamic.
Howie Gordon's transition into the adult film industry showcased the trade-offs between financial stability and personal values.
Bobby Gordon's upbringing with unconventional parents emphasized the importance of open discussions on sexuality and diverse perspectives.
Deep dives
Richard Pacheco's Journey into Adult Film Industry
In the early 1970s, Howie Gordon, known as Richard Pacheco in the adult film industry, transitioned from manual labor to becoming an adult film actor after taking acting classes. Despite initial hesitation, he embarked on this career path due to financial reasons, eventually starring in over a hundred films. His decision-making process highlighted the trade-offs he faced between financial stability and the nature of the industry.
Family Dynamics and Acceptance
Howie's son, Bobby Gordon, shared his experience growing up with a retired porn star father and a sex therapist mother. Their open discussions about sexuality and exposure to diverse perspectives shaped Bobby's understanding of intimacy and self-discovery. Despite the unconventional upbringing, Bobby expressed gratitude for the acceptance and support he received from his parents, leading to a positive outlook on his childhood.
Generational Reflection and Emotional Bonds
The podcast delves into the emotional bond between Howie and Bobby, revealing moments of vulnerability and shared experiences. Through reflections on family dynamics and parenting approaches, they emphasized the importance of emotional connection and mutual support. Their journey highlights the evolution of familial relationships and the impact of generational changes on parenting styles and personal growth.
Howie Gordon starred in over a hundred porn films in the 70s and 80s under the name Richard Pacheco. But his greatest role was as a father. At StoryCorps, he talked with his son Bobby Gordon about sex, shame, and dirty movies.
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