Know Thyself E162 - Charlie Houpert: The 6 Laws of Charisma: Become Magnetic by Being Yourself
Sep 9, 2025
Charlie Houpert, founder of Charisma on Command, shares insights on charisma that go beyond mere charm. He discusses his transition from shy to outgoing and provides six essential rules for becoming charismatic. Charlie dives into different charismatic personalities and the importance of authenticity and vulnerability. The conversation also touches on deeper concepts like surrendering to one's life mission, the impact of ayahuasca on self-acceptance, and overcoming personal blocks, particularly for men, to embrace unique gifts and foster meaningful connections.
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Charisma Is Influence And A Remembered Attitude
- Charisma is partly influence but also a remembered attitude tied to who you are becoming.
- Skills and innate expression both matter to mature charisma.
Charisma Is Morally Neutral
- Charisma is a neutral tool whose moral direction depends on who wields it.
- Learn from persuasive speakers regardless of their values while choosing your own ethical aim.
Practice The Six Core Charisma Mindsets
- Adopt the six charisma mindsets to be socially magnetic and dependable.
- Practice them with specific habits like leaning back, honest timekeeping, and sharing purpose proactively.
