Deconstruction When the House Burns Down: On Integration & the Relational Psyche (Dr. Ido Cohen)
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May 1, 2025 
Dr. Ido Cohen, a clinical psychologist and founder of The Integration Circle, shares his unique insights on psychological healing and transformation after losing his home in a fire. He discusses the power of relational healing and the importance of play in emotional recovery. Ido emphasizes integration as a journey of individuation, where personal growth emerges from grief and transformation. He advocates for community connection and embraces the playful elements of life, presenting a fresh perspective on resilience and self-acceptance.
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House Fire as Rebirth
- After losing his house to fire, Ido Cohen had to rebuild everything from scratch, including choosing new clothes that reflected his current self.
- This moment symbolized a fresh start and conscious choice in his identity and expression.
Curiosity Eases Grief Process
- Being curiously engaged with grief and transformation allows the experience to move through you without harsh judgment.
- This openness helps discern what feels authentic and right, beyond simply good or bad.
Life Beyond Our Control
- Life is managed by larger invisible forces beyond our control, requiring us to participate consciously rather than becoming victims.
- How we relate to these forces shapes our experience and capacity for grace.