I Was Good at Faking It. But God Wasn't Fooled | Sadie Robertson Huff & Lacy Abercrombie
May 14, 2025
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In this engaging conversation, comedian Lacy Abercrombie shares her journey from pretending to be a Christian to finding genuine faith after a life-changing snowstorm. Known for her TikTok character 'Jezziebeth,' Lacy discusses the struggles of feeling like she didn't belong and the power of authenticity in faith. She humorously reflects on the tensions of social media and self-reflection, all while encouraging singles to embrace their journey. With warmth and laughter, Lacy inspires listeners to seek true connection and joy in their faith.
Lacy Abercrombie emphasizes the importance of authenticity in faith, sharing her journey from pretending to truly knowing God.
The healing power of humor is highlighted as a vital coping mechanism for navigating pain and fostering resilience in life.
Singleness is framed as a valuable season for self-discovery and deepening one's relationship with God, rather than just a waiting period.
Deep dives
The Importance of Taking Breaks from Social Media
Logging off from the internet can be incredibly beneficial for mental health and personal well-being. The speaker emphasizes how stepping away from the online world allowed for a reset, fostering deeper connections with oneself and with faith. By taking breaks from social media, individuals can detoxify from the pressures and expectations associated with constantly curating their online persona, which can often feel like an idol. This is reinforced by the idea that true value is found beyond the screen and that taking time away helps to realign priorities.
Embracing Humor Amidst Struggles
Humor serves as a crucial tool for coping with adversity and overcoming life's challenges. The speaker describes how they found joy in making others laugh as a way to navigate personal pain and trauma. By sharing their own ability to blend laughter and humor with serious topics, they highlight the healing power of laughter and its role in fostering resilience. This balance also serves to remind others that it's okay to find joy while acknowledging struggles, as both can coexist in the journey of healing.
Significance of Genuine Relationships with God
Developing an authentic relationship with God often means re-evaluating one's understanding of faith and personal identity. The speaker emphasizes the importance of discipleship and having mentors who can guide individuals through their spiritual journey, especially during tough times. They share their transformational experience of confessing struggles and the pivotal moments that led to a deeper connection with God. This highlights the idea that vulnerability can lead to profound growth and understanding of one’s faith.
Valuing Singleness as a Gift
The speaker discusses the misconception that singleness is a time to be cured rather than appreciated as a valuable season of life. They express the idea that when individuals are single, they can have a more focused devotion to God and fully invest in their relationship with Him. Instead of viewing singleness as a waiting period, it should be seen as a unique opportunity for self-discovery, growth, and serving others without the distractions that come with relationships. Embracing this perspective encourages others to find contentment and fulfillment in their current state of life.
The Power of Sharing Personal Stories
Sharing personal narratives and experiences plays a vital role in ministry and community building. The speaker illustrates how honest confessions of past struggles and vulnerabilities resonate with others and create space for healing and connection. By being open about their own journey, they inspire those around them to confront their battles and seek authentic relationships with God and one another. This openness fosters a sense of belonging and serves as a reminder of the strength found in collective experiences.
If you've ever felt like you don't have a place where you belong, Sadie's guest today, Lacy Abercrombie, can empathize! Lacy shares her story of trauma, pain, hurt, secret sin, and never feeling like she belonged — and how a snowstorm ended up being the moment she finally got serious about the Lord. Out of the pain she’s experienced in the church and with Christians, Lacy created her character “Jezziebeth,” whom you’ve probably seen in a reel or on TikTok! Lacy says she pretended to be a Christian for years and was very good at it — but when asked if she loved the Lord, she had to be honest and say, “No.” And this was right before she went on stage at a women’s conference to deliver her comedic monologue! You'll love Lacy's honesty, authenticity, and humor in this incredible conversation. And don’t miss her encouragement for singles — and why she’ll never say no to a meal stop at Chili’s!
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