You Made It Weird with Pete Holmes Beth Stelling Returns
Oct 8, 2025
Beth Stelling, a stand-up comedian and writer known for her YouTube special The Landlord Special, joins the conversation to dive into the dynamics of touring and life in comedy. They explore the impact of social media on stand-up, the balance between presence and punchlines, and the art of handling hecklers. Stelling shares her experiences with DIY specials, the emotional toll of industry rejection, and the challenges of being a step-parent while on the road. Plus, they dive into personal tales of ghosts and psychic encounters that add a twist to their comedic musings.
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Turning Awkward Curiosity Into Material
- Beth and Pete riff about feet, vaginas, and early dating curiosities as comic fodder.
- The exchange shows how personal, vulnerable topics become playful material on stage.
Social Feedback Alters Standup Testing
- Social feedback changed how comedians test material because instant comments replace laugh/no-laugh signals.
- Beth says direct online critique makes her hesitate to post and reframe jokes for live vs. social audiences.
Protect Material From Constant Critique
- Do limit how much direct online critique you read after posting material to protect your creative rhythm.
- Engage selectively and avoid getting drawn into serial nitpicking that derails new work.
