PHILOSOPHY FOR THE PEOPLE EP. 98: HAS SEX GONE WOKE?
Jan 5, 2026
The hosts dive deep into modern sexual dynamics, questioning if younger generations are becoming less sexually active. They explore the intriguing connections between incels, hypergamy, and the historical constraints of monogamy. The podcast also touches on ancient practices and how Christianity reshaped sexual morality. Comedic segments break up discussions on gender roles, social expectations, and the impact of pornography on sexual knowledge. A lighthearted trivia game on demographics adds humor to the heavy themes, ensuring a thought-provoking yet entertaining listen.
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Conflicting Myths About Youth Sexuality
- Older generations portray youth as simultaneously hypersexual and sexually inactive, creating contradictory myths about young people's sex lives.
- This contradiction fuels anxieties like the incel narrative that sexual freedom somehow denies men access to sex.
Hypergamy And Historical Monogamy
- Hypergamy describes women's tendency to prefer partners with status and resources, which shapes sexual competition and social dynamics.
- Historical monogamy often enforced marital status on women while allowing men informal polygamy, complicating modern views on fidelity.
Dan Savage On Monogamy's Gender Bias
- Stefan recounts Dan Savage's observation that historical monogamy enforced marital status more strictly on women than on men's sexual behavior.
- He uses the example to show cultural assumptions about monogamy are historically narrow.


