This Is Uncomfortable Help! My coworker wants a copy of my house key!
Jan 22, 2026
Join culture writer and podcaster Sarah Hagi as she tackles the tricky world of workplace drama. Discover signs that your boss might be a scammer, and learn how to confront boundary-pushing coworkers. Sarah offers practical advice on handling requests for personal favors, like giving a house key, and navigating pay secrecy and raise negotiations. Plus, get ready for some fun as Sarah and Reema play rapid-fire 'Would You Rather' games about office dilemmas. It's a mix of humor and real talk about work life!
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Token Representation Signals Optics, Not Equity
- People sometimes use token representation (a single senior woman) to signal legitimacy without sharing power or pay.
- That practice is a common playbook and feels exploitative to those tokenized.
Document Then Demand Removal Or Payment
- Put your concern in writing before confronting someone about using your photo or bio without permission.
- Ask them to remove you or propose a formal consulting agreement with your rate.
Build Consensus Before Pushing For Raises
- Start low-stakes trust-building conversations with coworkers before attempting collective action on pay.
- Remember you can file with the National Labor Relations Board if the employer illegally bans pay discussion.