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The Hardest Year of Retirement: What No One Warned Me About | Retirement Reality

Dec 17, 2025
James "Jim" Selvey, a retired software engineer and author, opens up about his unexpected early retirement and the identity crisis that followed. He shares how a sudden layoff turned into an opportunity for clarity and self-discovery. Jim discusses navigating the emotional challenges, finding purpose through volunteer work, and exploring new creative outlets like writing. He emphasizes that retirement can be a chance to embrace new chapters and encourages others to view it as a liberating transition rather than a loss.
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INSIGHT

Retirement Is A New Chapter

  • Retirement often removes externally defined identity, forcing internal redefinition.
  • Jim reframed retirement as a new life chapter that requires exploration to find purpose.
ANECDOTE

Finding Purpose Through Hospital Volunteering

  • Jim found volunteer roles at a hospital that matched his skills and provided daily structure.
  • He drove patients and later used his spreadsheet skills in the volunteer office, which felt fulfilling.
INSIGHT

Health Gains From Leaving Work

  • Quitting work sharply reduced Jim's stress and medication, revealing work's health cost.
  • The immediate health gains helped validate his retirement decision.
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